By Miriam Salpeter, M.A.
Career Coach, www.keppiecareers.com
As a career coach and blogger, I am constantly seeking inspiration and looking for messages to convert into job search advice for my readers. So, when I watched a commercial for Lexis recently, one sound byte really resonated with me:
You can’t change traffic, so change the way you drive through it!
How true – there is so much that individuals do not control. The economy. The weather. The neighbors’ barking dogs. I bet someone once told you, “You can’t change other people, but you can change how you react to them.”
How much happier would we be if we stopped trying to change the things that we cannot alter and instead focused on what we do control – our responses?
The job market is a case in point. What if job seekers stopped “oh woe is me-ing” and instead focused on what they DO control – the way they navigate their searches. The playing field has changed, and it is important to adjust to the new terrain.
Here are some tips to help you take the wheel:
Draw Your Own Career Map
Identify your goals. You can’t get anywhere until you decide the destination! What characteristics and traits make you special? What are you (or do you hope to be) known for in your field?
Review trends and industries with career potential and determine if there are matches between your skills and interests and those fields. Instead of cursing a business with a shrinking job market, re-adjust, re-tool and re-train to take advantage of new possibilities.
Once you know your direction, optimize your resume. Be sure that it is skill and accomplishment focused, not a list of “stuff” you’ve done. (If you’ve been blaming your age or experience level (too much/not enough) for your lack of interviews, take a good look at your resume. It may be holding you back.)
Design Your Vehicle – Brand YOU!
Once you identify a destination – drive there! Learn how to position yourself as the expert in your field. Use all of the tools at your disposal to create a “vehicle” (your brand – it doesn’t have to be a Lexis!) that will drive you where you want to go.
If you haven’t looked for a job in a while and/or aren’t tuned in to managing your “digital footprint,” it’s time for a quick lesson in social media. Presenting yourself well both online and in person will help open previously closed doors. Optimize Twitter, LinkedIn, blogs and other social networking tools to make connections and share information.
Take the Keys!
The key to a successful career is to network generously. There is nothing more important or more useful for your job search. Your success depends on your ability to broaden your professional circles and to reach out to a diverse socio-economic group of people. Professionals who habitually facilitate introductions earn goodwill and reputations as valuable resources and colleagues. Become that professional; it will help you overcome obstacles to career success.
Start the Ignition – Communicate Your Value
Your ability to promote, communicate and connect your value to colleagues and superiors is crucial. Hone this “soft” skill – practice your writing, emailing, speaking, interviewing and presenting skills. Join Toastmasters. Make a point to learn how to communicate well. When you can articulate why your role is vital, you will help secure your future.
Confidently Forge Ahead – Start Rolling
Adjust your rear-view mirror, but keep your eyes on the road! Move forward with your plans knowing that you DO control your career. Is it as easy as reading these steps? No, but if you follow this plan, you will be on your way to managing your job hunt and/or your career with finesse and aplomb!
Seize control of what you can! Don’t be a victim of circumstances. Drive your own career bus!
Have you been able to “drive your own career bus?” What made the difference for you?
If you haven’t changed the way you are “driving through” your career or job search, what is holding you back?
Ed.Note:
With over 10 years of experience, Miriam Salpeter’s mission is to encourage, enlighten and empower job seekers for success. She is a speaker, blog author, coach and owner of Keppie Careers (www.keppiecareers.com). Miriam writes targeted resumes and provides a toolbox of practical job-hunting tips and support to help job seekers overcome obstacles that are keeping them from making positive life changes. Contact her if you could use some help with your job hunt!





11 users commented in " Are You Driving Your Own Career Bus? by Guest Miriam Salpeter "
I love that analogy -and it’s one I use a lot. People think in terms of “being in control.” The people I work with, people living with chronic illnesss, know that’s a fantasy. But you can still take charge — being the driver rather than the passive passenger. How good is that! Great post!
I like the article quote, “You can’t change traffic, so change the way you drive through it!” I can really apply it to my career path as there are so many things that life throws at you and sometime there is nothing you can do about it, the only way around it is to think outside the box and find creative solutions to it, just like the article say ‘drive through it’. I do believe being an open-minded person does help to get yourself through the career bus, to be open to changes and new things. I think branding yourself in the internet virally is great tool that is easy and free so that you can put yourself out there for prospective employers to see you. I put myself through many different social networking site so that I can get different type of offers. One website that is helpful was http://www.onecubicle.com. it helps me through the different processes of socializing with users and also jobs search. It is easy and fast too.
Rosalind – Thanks for your kind comment! It is so tough sometimes to really recognize what we DO control. The next step, not only recognizing, but taking the “wheel” and moving forward can be even more difficult. But, the results are so worth all of the effort! I hope the message that comes through is that, no matter how hard it seems, it will be valuable in the long run to take charge!
Randall – I loved that quote as well! It proves the point that you never know where inspiration lurks. (In this case, in a car commercial!) I agree that using all available tools is important and valuable. Thanks for your comments!
Great comments all. Thanks for stopping by. I also love the metaphor and ‘you can’t change traffic’ is a wise one, although I have seen some blue haired ladies in Florida try to do just that!
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::Sigh:: I guess I will turn up some music now to drown out my neighbor’s barking dogs. Thanks for the enlightenment, it’s very relevant to what I’m going through now!
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Hayli – Don’t think that dog example came out of thin air! I think it may be easier to get a job than it is to keep those dogs quiet!
Ironic the Lexus commercial inspired you. Did you know they are no longer the most reliable auto?
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